DRUG ABUSE PREVENTION
Thursday, April 23rd, 2009Prevention is more difficult than for most of the subjects because so often the drug taking adolescent has become involved as a result of a complex mixture of personality, social and parental factors. Many of these are deeply rooted in the past, even in the pasts of the parents, and most of the problems are inaccessible to all but the most skilled professional. There are, however, a few preventives that are worth trying:
• Discuss between you as parents what your views on drugs are. Sort out what you both feel so that should a problem arise you will deal with it more sensibly and compassionately and won’t make it worse by panicking.
• Give up smoking and drinking yourselves. Research shows that a youngster whose parents are addicted to legal drugs is much more likely to use illegal ones. This also goes for medications from your doctor. Keep all medicines out of the reach of children and youngsters.
• Make time to create a relationship with your children, from very early on. Give them confidence in the future and show that you care. If they feel that they can turn to you when things get tough you will have done the very best for them. The alternative is that they turn elsewhere and that could involve drugs. Youngsters who can trust their parents and like them as human beings will also be less likely to turn to drugs.
• Try, when discussing the subject with your children, to steer a course (however difficult it is) between making drug-taking seem acceptable and creating a ‘no-go’ area. When talking about drugs it is best not to talk about it in too dramatic or horror-inspiring terms because if the child knows people who take drugs and enjoy them they simply will not believe you. This will reduce your credibility all round which will be a loss. This is somewhat parallel to scare stories about VD when discussing sex with youngsters.
• Don’t be suspicious of your children, because if they are not taking drugs this could drive them to do so.
• Calmly tell your youngsters of the legal problems with drugs. Possession of heroin, cocaine and LSD can lead to prison sentences of up to seven years and trafficking in drugs can put someone in gaol for up to fourteen years. Even possessing fairly ‘harmless’ drugs such as cannabis, amphetamines and barbiturates can result in a five-year sentence.
• There is no guarantee that any of these preventive measures will in fact stop a youngster from taking drugs-the only sure preventive is a loving, caring, non-judgmental family in which the parents treat their youngsters with respect. This is a way of behaving that cannot just be started in the child’s early teens when you think you might begin having problems with sex and drugs-this is almost certainly too late. Preparation for this kind of relationship starts in the cradle with prolonged breastfeeding whenever the baby or mother wants to feed. The closeness this kind of behaviour produces is a sure foundation for good parent-child relationships and is likely to help the children withstand the certain knocks that life will bring.
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